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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (9 children)

So since I don't drink I can't hookup with drunk girls?

Exactly, you can't. That would be rape.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (8 children)

What the heck you are delusional

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (7 children)

No.

Being able to consent means being able to both understand what you're consenting to and being able to communicate that you consent to it.

A drunk person can't understand what they're consenting to and, after certain levels of drunkenness, can't communicate their consent either. Therefore they can't consent. You, being sober, should know this and therefore shouldn't take advantage of them. If you do take advantage of them, then that makes you a rapist.

As the other commenter pointed out, I hope the women around you know you're not a safe person to be around.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm very thoughtful and delicate regarding consent and am not going to let some asshat tell me that I'm "not safe to be around".

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I'm very thoughtful and delicate regarding consent

Given what you've said so far I'm gonna call bullshit on that.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Did you ever think about the fact my initial comment might have been fictitious?

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

I see, almighty, all knowing, the plot continues. Well whatever, I think I'm going to continue "raping" people then.

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