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Feeling lost and with no direction, what skill should I learn? (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Hi everyone. I am feeling like I've lost any direction after getting laid off earlier this year (was working as an analyst in telecom and very recently landed a much lower position in healthcare data entry due to necessity). I already have several hobbies but I am either burnt out on them or they have lost their luster (similar to how life has lost its luster for me this past 6 months).

I would really love to learn a new skill, preferably using my hands to create something while challenging my brain. I'm willing to take classes, study, practice, and buy some equipment required for the skill.

Please tell me about your skill/hobby that gives you purpose. I've kind of exhausted google search which always returns the same 20 or so craft suggestions like "make custom invitations for weddings", and while that sounds good for someone, it may not be good for me.

Current hobbies: Music composition and gardening,

EDIT: trying to move away from hobbies that involve me sitting in front of a computer. I already do that way too much.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

It's really all going to depend on your tastes and lifestyle. Like I could recommend that you get a dog and start learning how to train dogs as a hobby, but that's just not going to work for everyone. What's important is that you explore things and maybe even try some hobbies that could potentially improve your well-being. Maybe you live somewhere near a good hiking spot and you could take up hiking to get outdoors and get more exercise. Maybe you could learn how to cook and explore how to make healthy meals that suit you better. Or maybe you just want to create something and you could take up woodworking or make model planes or something. The possibilities are endless, you just need to decide what you'd like to get out of it.

Personally, I spend most of my time for work indoors on a computer, so most of my hobbies involve using my hands and getting outdoors. I took up a lot of extra hobbies during covid for obvious reasons. So here goes my list of >!hobbies that will maybe give you some ideas:

Cooking/baking/bread
Candy making
Jam making
Gardening
Canning (goes great with gardening!)
Succulents
Mixology
Dog training
Camping/hiking (this one is minimal only because I don't live somewhere with good hiking spots)
Board games, video games, and movies during the winter when I can't go outside

Other things I've considered taking up but haven't for various reasons:

3D printing
Bonsais
Home brewing

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

What kind of candy do you make? I make cannabis edibles. I've done gummies, peanut butter cups, caramels, and hard candies. I tried peppermint melts but they were really terrible!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I mostly make chocolate based candies, but I dabble in other candies from time to time like caramels, candied nuts, candied fruits/ginger/etc. I like to make candies around Christmas time to give to family and friends as they make really nice gifts.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

I've made ginger hard candles. I want to try candied ginger and I'd really like to figure out a ginger chewy candy.

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