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At what step do you struggle the most?

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Talking to people I don't know and initiating conversations in general. If the other person doesn't approach me first, I can't do it myself. I'm not much into dating, but it's really inconvenient for socializing in general.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think this is my issue as well. You always hear about how women hate being approached, and I really don’t want to come across as a creep who hits on women in public.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Yes that really sucks... I'm glad I'm a straight woman so I don't have it as bad, I just don't know how guys who have the same problem manage 🫀

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