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submitted 4 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

If so, does that mean people actually remember a persons name & face after only one encounter?!

If not, why do we pretend they will be upset, and try to hide the fact that we forget an unfamiliar name?

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

I'd imagine if you literally worked with them, 5 days out of a week.. after two weeks, yeah that would be at the very least strange.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

It happens. Half the time people get bummed, the other half they are OK with it and will tell you they have a hard time remembering names too. I am in the latter group. When I forget a name and the person is obviously upset I'll tell them "let me tell you something few people beside my wife know about me, I have this social anxiety that yadayadayada...". This usually smooths things out as I've shown a vulnerable side and nice people sympathize with that. If they don't fuck em

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

My name is Hubert Blaine Wolfeschlegelsteinhausenbergerdorff.

You better remember it and pronounce it properly!

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

It's great to meet you H.B.W. - can I call you buh-dubs (like the Netflix jingle) for short?

[-] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago

I had a brain fart when talking to a new coworker and couldn’t remember her name. She was very attractive, and this had clearly never happened to her before. She became very agitated and upset about it. (She wasn’t a b*tch or anything, just unaware of the benefits she got from being pretty.)

I was always nice and respectful to her, but for the rest of our time working together, I continued forgetting her name and it drove her nuts.

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