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Now that a lot of the commotion has subsided I'm just curious to know how y'all are finding the Lemmy experience in general and whether you use it regularly like you did reddit?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

I found Lemmy to be better for my mental health. I recently visited Reddit again to follow on a heated topic since Reddit has more info and news, and found my anxiety levels skyrocket due to the toxicity of comments.

While Lemmy has less engagement than Reddit, that also leads to a more level-headed community.

That, and with new Lemmy apps and experiences being developed constantly, I'm liking it here a lot.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

I like it. I feel more comfortable to engage with others. I still have some communities on reddit that I go back to for specific information, but other then that, full transition.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (4 children)

I love beehaw but I'm starting to feel disconnected from the community. I feel like overall beehaw and lemmy are creating this echo chamber that is repeating the same talking points over and over again. Reddit and Twitter both offered insight from industry leaders or at least those in the industry in question. Lemmy seems to lack those type of folks. I'm also noticing an abundance of opinionated folks. This is good and bad. It feels like sometimes there isn't any worth from engaging in a conversation. Sometimes there is, but a good bit of time I end up regretting it.

Overall it's like the Linux version of Reddit. It's not great but you can feel slightly more ethical using it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

It's alright

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Well... If I never see a post about tech or a meme again it'll be too soon.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

Since Sync came out, absolutely love it! Hope more people join!

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Nice positivity in this thread.

I like it a lot, the platform is very promising. Trying to get some general communities (movies, casualconversation) up to speed

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

Tbh I was never a regular reddit user , no matter how much I tried , however since I have joined lemmy, I am using it like a lot ! Enjoying it here a lot !

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Found it great a month or two ago. Now, not so much. Gobshites and troll scum seem to be slowly making the place just another platform for bollox. Shame really.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (3 children)

A bit annoyed about defederations and community blocks. If an instance wants to be an island by itself, fine, but you shouldn't have to stay up to date with random announcements from each instance to figure out all the places you need to have an account to access all the content you want to.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Unfortunately the communities that I'm interested in didn't really move. I tried very hard to just quit Reddit cold turkey, but instead I've dialed it back to only 4-5 core topics that I'm interested in. For general doomscrolling I mostly use Apple News now. I check Lemmy every day or two but it's hard to get stuck in when the discussions I'm interested in aren't really flourishing here. Hopefully it grows over time.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Pretty good. It's my default morning scroll, at least.

I've got a lot more comfortable with it since using Alexandrite on desktop and Sync on mobile.

The only thing really missing at the moment is content. It tends to be good for the high profile stuff, but a bit lacking for the niche stuff. I still sneak back to the other place on occasion to catch up on smaller communities... hopefully that will come with time.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (5 children)

In general, it's been pretty good. Stuff is a bit unstable every now and then, but most of that changed when I switched away from lemmy.world.

There's a couple of things to contend with though. There's less content than there was on Reddit. This ultimately doesn't matter that much for general browsing, as there is still plenty. But for more niche communities it now means barely any content. Even with larger topics like Formula 1 it's quite noticeable that there's a lot less people in there. It's great during big discussions, but any smaller links or discussions often only have like 1 or 2 responses. For other communities it's even worse. Some of the genres I listen to have basically nothing going on, while on Reddit the community was at least large enough to have a few nice discussions every moe and then. The same with many games that I really liked.

Another problem is federation with more (politically) extreme instances like lemmygrad, hexbear, and some right wing crap that was luckily defederated before I could remember their names. On the one hand, I don't want defederation based on political opinion alone to be the norm. But neither do I particularly like getting constantly called a "lib" (even though I'm quite left wing compared to the national average) or get to read constant discussions on these topics wherever I go. I come here to read about fun stuff, unwind a bit, not to constantly read about people defending dictatorships. Hexbear is especially interesting, since their users also add a lot of fun memes and good content. But then equally they brigade comment sections and overwhelm anyone who disagrees with them.

Ending on a positive note: the software (apps, backend, frontend, etc) have really gotten a lot better over the past months. I'm using Connect at the moment and I really enjoy it. Bugs keep disappearing, to the point where I now have very few complaints. Apps is why I left Reddit, so seeing that we're now (imo) in a better place than Reddit is a good thing.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I'm not going to be fully optimistic, I've struggled to get one community active and can feel myself slowly giving up. I moved from Reddit using the website as 80% image sharing and 20% discussion and it feel like Lemmy's content is 20% image sharing and 80% discussion so it's feeling rough

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It's ok. I've had some amicable conversations and there's more content for my train trips. Sometimes the online arguments make my anxiety shoot up.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Very nice, much better than I expected. And it's only gonna get better with apps further development.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I love it. People complain about the lack of hobbyist spaces so Iโ€™m making an active effort to build them up more as time allows. I have considered making an art lemmy instance which may be a potential eventually, but Iโ€™m fine either way.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I prefer Lemmy, it's a smaller community and I like the fact that you don't need karma to make a comment or post. I still lurk Reddit every now and then, but only for information about my interests, I don't comment or post.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

I'm interacting with it far more and in far more varied contexts than I had been on reddit for several years. Overall, there isn't as much useful or entertaining activity in total of course, but the signal to noise ratio is soooooo much higher.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

I use it daily and don't go on reddit anymore. I'm missing a lot of things I used to look at but I don't have anything to post on those topics.

Compared to reddit the quality of discussion is far better. It still feels like you can't go against the grain without being banned. I haven't had a spicy enough take on anything to test that yet but I've seen people getting instantly labeled as trolls and banned.

Overall it's a good experience, I think the web ui is better than reddit without RES and I'm liking Jebora even if it's buggy as hell.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Love it! Reddit was unusable to me with its crazy mods, so I mostly lurked. I also personally find lemmings to be more welcoming than redditors.

And I like to be somewhere closer to the start of the journey we're all making here on Lemmy even though it's been years since it was released. We're still early (but for real, unlike with creepto).

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

It's quite good as long as a thread is not political. As soon as anything even remotely political starts being discussed, it devolves into an absolute shitshow, political opinions on Lemmy seem to be much more extreme than on Reddit for some reason.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

A bit slow at times, but loving it so far.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

I comment and post more than on Reddit partially because it feels more personal, partially because I want the platform to grow

The two problems I have that I can think of right now are there aren't as many communities/they're smaller/fractured across instances, and the classic internet hivemind dogpile on topics and stances

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Ditched Mastodon pretty much entirely and Lemmy has been my go to. Sometimes will fill in content gaps with my RSS feeder. Definitely leaned me off of Reddit and I haven't touched the site in like 2 months. The desktop site is still rough, but using Sync it feels like I'm on Reddit again. It's just missing the niche communities I really missed, but the community is still building up here. Lemmy still has a lot to improve but overall the community has been pretty stable. The instance drama is entertaining lol.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The memes are good, but some of the zealots here have lost their god damn minds. Seems like only in certain threads, on certain instances.

It's weirdly more and less chill than reddit at the same time. I kinda like it though.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Honestly? I'm wondering where all the quality Reddit posters ended up. Some Lemmy comments are even worse than the ones on Reddit, although the lack of gag posts is refreshing.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

It's fun to start with a small user base. The downtime is rough, and I have some minor issues with it like the fact that deleting a comment hides all of the replies to that comment. Overal, though, it's kew.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Browsing through the global feed scratches the same itch as browsing through r/all mindlessly does and I don't miss much from Reddit, but I really miss r/noncredibledefense, and neither Lemmy spin off community is nearly as active

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Aside from the russian shills, fine and dandy.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I wish there was a big enough wrestling community

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I had a great time here and did a great viral promotion campaign for the movie before the strike!

I guess the secret for a box office record is to organically promote the movie on Lemmy.

I'm like the George Takei of Lemmy, this is my turf now.

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