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What's something that you were surprised to find out a lot of people hate? (lemm.ee)

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

But neither of us wants to have only one great romance in our lives

That is the most succinct, eloquent, and compelling statement in this entire thread.

Have you also had your own distinct romantic relationships with others since being married, or is that not something you are interested in?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

It's something I'm actively pursuing. I really had to transition first before it was a realistic option. Now it feels almost inevitable. I rock a manic pixie moon child look and vibe working at a busy dispensary. I just have to let RNGesus do her terrible work and stay vigilant.