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  • My knee still doesn't feel right after that hiking trip two weeks ago.
  • I started listening to really old music.

Have I crossed the threshold?

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)
  • A general feeling of alienation from society. Particularly younger people.
  • Dislike of β€˜modern’ music.
  • Nostalgia over the way things used to be as you have lived long enough to witness the enshittification.
[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I like the enshittification one. Old(er) people say how much better things were back in the day, but we just say that's rose tinted glasses because actually e.g. violent crime was much higher.

Then we tell the younger generation that the web used to be so much better and they are all "yes, grandpa, that's great grandpa".

But it was better! I swear it was!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Instagram is always the one that springs to mind for me. It was amazing in the early days before Facebook bought it and turned it into the monstrosity it is now. I was an early user of it. It was quirky, it was fun, the community was much smaller and people didn't care about how many likes they got. It was actual photography and was more personal. Not the ad-infested self-promoting shallow bullshit it is now.

Old Instagram > New Instagram is the absolute peak of enshittification for me. It's genuinely awful now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Remember when Instagram said you reached the end of new posts?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Except you feel this even if you're in your 20s. It's not exactly an old thing lol

Hell, even over the last 3 years it's super obvious

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Hmm, I think back to say the early 2000s, before digg and reddit but after static websites. I never got the opportunity to use Usenet but random forums all running on PHPBB and later, Invision Power Board, with some other software thrown in.

Ok, that might be rose tinted glasses, as that was the first experience of user-led content rather than static sites (unless you count geocities).

Digg, and later Reddit, was a sort of bringing together of these different forums into one platform. It was great at the time, but so was 1GB of free email when other free email providers were doing 5MB and we all know how that turned out...

Man, I'm feeling half nostalgic and half old talking about seeing the birth of Gmail and the first mainstream social media and the first iPhone. My kids hear my stories about the days before smart phones and the days before aeroplanes and think of them as the same kinda time frame.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Forums are starting to make a comeback, reddit is shit for a lot of historical style discussions(like on going threads) and Facebook groups and discord are completely trash for it as well. I'm seeing a lot of the forums I used to visit start to pick back up.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh that's good! Positive signs!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Yep, I don't see them getting massive like they used to be, but definitely not as dead as they have been for the last 10 years or so. I don't know if it's just the generation that grew up with the old net or if there is a sprinkle of the new younger generation helping though.