I felt sorry for the French girls who had their hair shaved off for dating Nazi officers. We really don't know why they did it and I doubt it helped the occupiers very much.

Pretty indifferent to this.

I live about a hundred km from the nearest russian military base. Can I behave like that?

Traitor sounds too soft compared to the word we got for it in Norway, but "traitors of a country" in war rarely rouse much sympathy.

E.g. the majority of Norwegians are against the death penalty, but you would be hard pressed to find many opposing the decision to execute Quisling after the war.