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It's okay, that's life! You have plenty of time to explore and make new friends. I really wouldn't sweat the small stuff. You can probably text her at a reasonable hour with a different invite, and she might respond. I wouldn't put too fine a point on making a date out of it, though. Just be friends for a bit first, no strings attached.
Plus...it's kinda good to have mixed gender friends anyways, even if you aren't dating. Gives you fresh perspectives and better advice. :D
Yeah, she's gone lol, I mean I'm 20 and she was 29 with a 9 year old kid and that's not really what I want in a relationship. But oh my god she was easily the most attractive girl I've ever talked to, both in terms of looks and personality.