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[-] [email protected] 34 points 1 month ago

I feel like a lot of replies here have the same "every live is precious and needs to be protected at all costs"-vibe as you get with a lot of anti-abortion arguments.

[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You are casually ceding the "not wanting people to kill themselves" ground to the right while also allowing them to paint themselves as caring about human lives when in reality they just want to control women's bodies and protect fetuses, not people.

"Every life is valuable" is obviously a left-wing stance because the left are the ones who actually care about people's lives, even when they're disabled, downtrodden, and painted as burdens on society.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Oh right wing def feel every life has value.

Just less value then everybodies right not to be forced to pay for them.

They are fairly open about the value of a states non right to force an indevidual to fund anothers life. Being more important then anything.

That the value for all lives is based on either an indeviduals ability to self support. Or other indeviduals willingness to offer charity.

It is forced charity usinging the states ability to use violence they consider a greater crime then any % of society not wanting to support the lives of those in need.

Its not value or no value. But priority of those values that differs.

IE states using its same power of violence to kill forign people who might disagree with the state. Can be argued with no worry about the value of those actions. They have no issue with not choosing to fund defence or the actual state ability to use violence to enforce its laws.

Just the state taking money via potential force to provide life to US citizens in need.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

Exactly. If we're talking about vibes, seeking to normalize suicide for people with disabilities gives me the same vibes as far-right eugenics stuff.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Ill say one thing. As some one with disabilities. While i have no desire myself. Heck my life will be short anyway.

I do feel it is a right people should have.

It just really requires a sound mind at the time of choice. And huge effort to ensure it is not a choice the paiteint is neing forced or guilted into making.

As I cant really come up with an effective and garenteed way to enforce those restrictions.

Im currently happy my natiin will not allow anyform of assisted suicide. It must be entirly at partients own control. And technocally even then its a crime. But one that xamt be punished. Where as an assistant will be jailed.

But I can hope/wish for a world where people could choose to have suffering ended without so much risk of others pushing them into it for thier ow. Reasons.

As I say its not a choice I would make. But my own health means it could be one I mY want amd need help to make in the future.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I have no clue why you're trying to push my argument into a political direction.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Is abortion not a political issue? What do you mean by that?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

It is a political issue because people want it to be one. My comment was about the way the arguments sound, not about what political side says what.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Well, I was trying to push it in a political direction because I don't like my beliefs being compared to anti-abortionists based on vibes and appearances. It's necessary to engage more critically with the issue to demonstrate that any apparent similarities are just superficial.

There is no objective division between political and non-political. This is a question about government policy on which people are divided, so to me it's inherently a political issue.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I don't know what to tell you. It seems to me like you're critical about assisted suicide but are pro choice when it comes to abortions.

In my opinion those two things are different sides of the same coin. Regardless of politics.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I don't believe that they are different sides of the same coin. I see very little in common between the two.

From my perspective, it would be like saying opposition to war or the death penalty is just like being opposed to abortion, because anti-choice people claim to value life.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Assisted suicide and abortions are tied to informed consent and aren't really something that can be done 'on a whim'. (Obviously abortions should be easier to get access to than assisted suicide)

Getting murdered nonconsenting (through war or the death penalty) is something completely different.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

There are valid reasons to restrict certain actions or substances even if someone gives informed consent. While bodily autonomy is a right, it isn't absolute to the point of outweighing all other rights and all practical considerations (no right is absolute). For any given right, whether it's bodily autonomy, free speech, etc, there are valid reasons why limitations may be placed on it, and it isn't valid to lump all of those reasons together with bullshit reasons people might want to restrict it. It would be like saying that people who don't want it to be legal to shout "fire" in a theater are just like people who want to ban criticism of the government.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

What's a valid reason in your opinion for banning assisted suicide?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I wrote out some of my reasons here.

In short, it's difficult to evaluate how much of a person's psychological pain is innate and inherent to them and how much of it is caused by broader social factors. Even if every treatment option is exhausted, therapists can't change society. I'm concerned that social changes for the sake of accommodation will get more difficult if assisted suicide becomes seen as an adequate solution.

Assisted suicide is fundamentally the same thing as non-assisted suicide, the only difference is that it makes less of mess. But the person is still gone and it's every bit as tragic. Changing norms about suicide wouldn't address the actual problems, it would only make the problems less visible and easier to ignore. If we're going to change something, we should instead work to improve the conditions people are living in. Suicide is not the answer.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

therapists can't change society.

So we just let people suffer until society changes itself? And even then there will be people where damage is already done.

Assisted suicide is fundamentally the same thing as non-assisted suicide,

I agree that those things are related. But with assisted suicide people get the option to properly say farewell, have a guarantee they won't suffer and don't risk mentally scarring first responders or otherwise involved people unnecessarily. They'll do it anyways, so why not make it less horrible for them?

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

They’ll do it anyways, so why not make it less horrible for them?

I disagree with that. Will they do it anyway? There is evidence that putting up simple barriers to suicide (such as guardrails on a bridge) is effective at reducing suicide, while having a method of suicide readily available (such as a gun) can increase risks of suicide. Suicide is often an impulsive and irrational decision.

If some percentage of people would be deterred from suicide by the inconvenience of doing it themselves, and some percentage of that group would go on to recover enough to lead happy lives, wouldn't that at least potentially be a good enough reason to restrict it?

But to answer your previous question, yes. We do let people suffer until society changes. Because I believe that it is better to endure the suffering and injustice caused by society than to look for an easy escape that doesn't actually solve the problem, at least for anyone else. If I see suffering, is the proper solution to rip out my eyes? No. That's incredibly misdirected, but that's the logic of suicide. Rather than seeking to address the actual problem, it's directing violence towards one's own ability to sense and perceive the world around them. It is the ultimate form of "out of sight, out of mind," taking it so far that you eliminate your own mind for having the audacity to report to you about unpleasantness. Addressing the underlying cause is what's important, the pain is merely a symptom, which exists for the reason of telling us something's wrong.

There are exceptions to that generalization. It is possible that the real source of the problem is within one's body, that it's causing incurable and unbearable physical pain. In those cases, I think it's acceptable - but no further.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

You're just moving the goalpost at this point.

I hope you never get severe depression or any physical illness that wants you to commit suicide. Because I doubt that you would last long, considering you clearly never delt with any of that before.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I have, actually, and that's why I feel as strongly about this as I do. If I didn't believe what I've said, I'd have most likely killed myself. I'm alive today for the hope that someday things could get better and for the knowledge that my death wouldn't fix anything.

The goalposts have not moved a single inch.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

You moved the goalpost by going from "we should ban assisted suicide" to "we should make suicide harder (instead of actually doing something against the root causes)".

I'm glad that you "went trough the same and turned out fine", but most people that bring up that argument have not turned out fine.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You moved the goalpost by going from “we should ban assisted suicide” to “we should make suicide harder (instead of actually doing something against the root causes)”.

My position from the start has been that assisted suicide, if it is to be allowed at all, should only be allowed for people with incurable physical pain. You can find multiple different comments of me saying that in this thread.

I’m glad that you “went trough the same and turned out fine”, but most people that bring up that argument have not turned out fine.

Wow. Thank you so much for telling me you think that suicide is the only answer to my problems. That's a very reasonable and normal thing to say to someone you've never met.

Showing your real colors. You people just want people with mental illness to kill themselves so we'll be out of your hair. Go fuck yourself, asshole.

Completely writing off whatever progress I've made while knowing precisely jack shit about my journey. What the fuck is wrong with you to think that's ok?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think your argument that it's OK for people to suffer because they might get better some day is awful. What if they don't get better? What if it gets worse? Why is this anyones business except the affected persons?

The fact that you battled mental shit is just a display of survivorship bias and doesn't mean shit IMO.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

Fuck off. The only reason I didn't block you was to give you a chance to realize you said something incredibly fucked up and apologize. Your attitude is a perfect example of why I'm opposed to this garbage and has only served to validate my position, which I now am more convinced of than ever. Blocked.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Until they are asked to do something to help, then it's crickets

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