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I just don't think people like me for me and want to be with me because there's something of me and about me that they want to be around with. I can find something to be attracted to with almost anyone, but for some reason, it's the opposite with me.
I can relate to that. There's always that looming feeling that as soon as I stop doing something or projecting a certain personality type the other person is attracted to, they'll lose all interest.