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I think this is something I learned from Reddit too, although from the lurker side vs your example. It seems like it's one of the scary and cool things about the Internet, that your words can be seen by anyone and interpreted in many ways you didn't intend. Even if something seems perfectly clear to you, someone else might not see it.
I think I also learned that I am also vulnerable to misinformation, just as much as the people that I've scoffed at for falling victim to it. It's made me more cautious in how I relay information to other people - if I am speculating or don't have complete information about something, I make sure to mention that. I think the people in my life have come to trust me more when I tell them something because of this.
I once posted a comment that was misinterpreted by a bunch of neo-Nazis as an expression of a sympathetic view. I was showered with compliments and expressions of friendship and invited through private messages to join a range of exclusive Nazi forums. They were extremely welcoming and warm, and it felt good except for the whole thing about them all being Nazis. So Reddit taught me something about how the far right recruits by making people feel appreciated and special. And I also learned to check my comments for ambiguity.