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A few examples include s*x questions on askreddit, "this" comments, nolife powermods, jokes being more frequent than actual answers

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'd say people worrying about Karma.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

karma (or upvotes-downvotes aka simple karma) shouldn't be a reason to disallow someone from using a lemmy community

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I get the objective need for the /s in this particular context, but we absolutely should add "using /s when the sarcasm should be obvious for anyone with basic reading comprehension skills" to the list

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

As someone who is incredibly tone deaf in written conversation, please don't get rid of the /s. It really does help

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't agree, /s is immensely useful for neurodivergent people, some of which cannot recognize sarcasm at all.

Also, really often something that is "obvious sarcasm" for you is a genuinely held belief by someone online. Nothing is too ridiculous for the internet

[โ€“] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Maybe internet forums aren't the best place for people that can't recognize context.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why should we exclude neurodiverse people from a space when it's easy enough to make it accessible?

[โ€“] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Apparently reddit and lemmy are the only places they socialize, so whatever.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Do you active dislike neurodiverse people or you just prefer to surround you only with people you can relate to?

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Wtf kind of questions are those?

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The ones that arise from your attitude in light of your previous answers.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

First off, you're commenting on a conversation from over a month ago.
Second, no I have no ill feelings towards anyone at all.
Third, yes I do prefer to surround myself with people I can relate to, just like every one else in the world does.

Welcome to lemmy by the way, I hope you enjoy it.
Try to not be so negative here.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

If your comments have a deadline or expiration date, please note so, that way we can know when It becomes irrelevant or must not be read.

Second, dismissing people is having ill will towards them.

Third, your condescension is noted and dismissed.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Listen man, your the one that came at me with an attitude. You can kindly fuck off now. Learn how to talk to people.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Learn how to be people.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

Just because you don't care about certain groups of people who are not actively damaging for the world, that doesn't mean that they should be excluded from here.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not just frequent jokes, but those annoying ever-repeating jokes. Like as if 80% of users were the same person. Before opening any post on Reddit, there is a good chance to be able to correctly predict the exact content of a significant portion of the comments. I get that it can be funny to an individual to come across stuff like "I also choose this guys wife" or "And my axe" more than once. But for people like me, who did not just start using the website, it is really annoying to come across the same jokes literally hundreds of times.

This goes hand in hand with the general idea of a "Reddit hivemind". Depending on the subs you visit, you can see that Reddits userbase is actually really diverse. There are people from every demographic with all kinds of different life experiences. But in a lot of subs, anytime a woman is mentioned there is a flood of people acting like as if there are no women on the internet and as if no person using Reddit could have a girlfriend. Again, I get that it can be funny once or twice. But when the idea that every user must be a typical "Redditor" gets repeated all the time it's just annoying. Needless to say that I don't look forward to being called a "Lemming" on this site.

Also, repeating comments on the same post. Obviously you don't have to read all the comments if there are already hundreds of them. But if there are too many comments saying the exact same thing it just gets harder to read them all. So it would be nice if people would look whether the point they want to make maybe has been made already. They can increase that comment's visibility by upvoting. No need to make other people read the same content multiple times and by that make it harder to read different comments.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Reddit became too America focused. Most of the posts were about America or assumed everyone reading was American. It felt very exclusionary.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I think this will remain a problem on any platform that includes enough Americans. The general public in America just seems unaware of anything outside America.

I think this stems from their education system, what they (don't) broadcast on mass-media and how normal and even laudable they consider fanatical nationalism to be (did you know they require children to swear devotion to the nation state every day at school!?).

In any case, I don't think this is a problem that any platform that wants to include Americans can avoid.

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago

I saw this complaint on reddit a lot, but at the end of the day, it was a US based site. Of course there will be mostly Americans and they will default to that understanding.

Also, the US is a large country. It's not like Europe where you're a day trip away from 5 other countries. Most Americans can't afford travel outside the US, so they only have exposure to the many cultures within the US.

The hate Americans get for not catering discussion on a US based site to the global community is really what's strange.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Calling communities "master race" as in /r/pcmasterrace

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol everyone should go read the couple of posts on the community / magazine with the same name. Hilarious seeing people so triggered by people pointing out that the name is a bit problematic.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

IIRC, it started of as a joke and an explicit nazi reference to make fun of PC gaming fanboys, and then they just embraced it without understanding the context?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The usual cycle of edgy jokes. They start off as mocking a group of bad actors, then those same bad actors miss the joke and take on the term for themselves without irony.

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