Icaria

joined 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Rap got popular in the 80's, like NWA and Run DMC, right as GenXers were entering their formative years. Really not hard to figure out before posting pointless replies.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago (4 children)

The whole trend is nothing new. Millennials and some GenXers were stealing all their slang from American rappers when they were young, too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

I needed a new saucepan.

I've now replaced half my kitchen.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Speaking of people who start shit for no reason, invent grievances, etc...

Scroll up, the last guy tried your latest tactic already. Insults and comebacks =/= arguments.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Siiiigh, would it help if I said penis? The last time this happened, it happened to be a woman.

And it's pretty obvious when someone starts shit with people on the Internet for no reason, then posts their uglies all over the net, that they've got a pretty juvenile issue with attention-seeking behaviour in general.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

What argument? I said insults and comebacks. You've tried very hard to miss the point.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago (9 children)

More than once I had someone being an arse to me on reddit, I took a gander at their profile to see what kind of fucko I was dealing with... and it was full of their nudes.

One time it was someone who lived in the same town as me.

Yeah... your insults and comebacks don't hit quite as hard now that I know you're desperate for people to see your vagina.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

Instructions unclear, drank corpse water.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Don't accuse me of being obtuse and conflating different situations when you just attacked a massive strawman. I'm not talking about rumours, more like someone showing up to a party at your place, acting weird from the moment she showed up, locking herself in the toilet, self-harming, then wasting weeks of your life and doing a number on your sanity after going to the police, claiming she was raped. This isn't a hypothetical.

Compared to actual real sexual assault, which IS a huge problem

You repeat some variation of this about 3 times in your reply. This is called relative privation. Two things can be problems at the same time, and it doesn't need to be a competition over which one we're allowed to care about.

The issue of how to handle sexual assault accusations is not complicated. I told you, we handle them all the time in the medical field. You default to protecting the accuser, you do a thorough investigation, if the investigation turns up no evidence, you move on.

Speaking of conflation... most people don't have the luxury of a professional environment with oversight and procedures for handling these situations. You live in a fantasy land if you think this is how actual human relationships play out, or if this is how they're investigated.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

This is way too close to "if you've done nothing wrong, you've got nothing to hide" logic.

What exactly are you doing out there in the world that this is a major concern in your life?

Making terrible choices in friends, for one. Never been accused of SA, thank christ, but figured out too late that many people live in their own reality, and rewrite history once the friendship ends. Have also known people who have been in that situation, and even if no charges end up being pressed, it's still a gut-wrenching situation to be in.

The issue of how to handle SA accusations is such a nightmare that it's practically inevitable that we have both innocent people convicted, and guilty people acquitted at the same time. Most of the time we don't have the kind of oversight and institutional procedure you would enjoy if accused.