It could help with long term to define sub goals.
For example, about what amount of savings you want to have by which date, or set a date when you want to have a clear concise description of what kind of house and location you are looking for.
At another date you want to be familiar with all the things that involve buying a house, the documents and what not.
By defining sub goals you keep things real and are able to measure your position towards your goal.
It's a valid strategy for dealing with complex and long term stuff.
It's a gift. If they don't like it I hope they find a good destination for it. Maybe somebody else will be happy with it.
I give it away, and then I don't really care anymore, unless the gift was expensive and specifically asked for.
I don't waste my time by being offended about things that I have no control over. I've added my positive contribution to the situation, do with it what you want.