Rekorse

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 minutes ago

I think the part people leave out is that not everyone has the same goal. Most describe it as being "happy", but never consider whether thats even possible to be happy nearly all the time.

The flaw there as I see it is that humans seem to always return to some sort of baseline emotional state, but this state is not happiness. Happiness is the spikes up while sadness are the spikes down, but given enough time it always comes back to baseline.

Thats why you can find really extreme examples of happiness. Some of the time I spent in jail were truly happy times, which really confused me at the time. On the other side you might see people become depressed during or after achieving their goals.

In my opinion, having the wrong expectations for how you should feel and for how long, can turn small curable problems into consuming destructive problems.

It should be: time plus perspective heals all wounds.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 34 minutes ago

Its not prefacing it with a summary, its letting them know you have a point at the end they should wait for.

I actually prefer the type of conversation that goes back and forth and tangents, but there is a place for more long form cohesive ideas, and you should wait to hear it all before speaking.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

If you are going to make a long winded statement, its not crazy to preface it with something.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Just a caveat, seeking therapy for ADHD is improving mental fortitude. Nothing wrong with that, and some people might need chemical assistance. Hard to say, its such a young field.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

If you are pretty hungry thats all doable for sure! For like an average size meal I'd do one crunchwrap or three tacos.

They let you add on pretty much whatever too so I just pick the cheapest tacos and burritos and make them supreme myself. I get a bean and rice burrito, fresco (replaces dairy and meat with pico de gallo), add fries/potatoes inside, add jalapeΓ±os, and lettuce. Comes up to like 3.50 or 4.00 for it.

All the other fast food places prices around me make taco bell look like a fantastic deal, I'll say that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

America does it meat style :( not a single thing I can eat there. BK has an impossible burger

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Meanwhile McDonalds dips their fries in meat flavoring, so thats fun.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

I do the same thing with chipotle.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The crunch wrap is for taco bell fans who got tired of their tacos, don't start there!

Get a soft shell, hard shell, and a crunch wrap and eat them in that order. You also have to get a mountain dew Baja blast as thats taco bells own flavor.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Only fast food place with vegan food too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If you need to use long term disability you do. Also some workplaces ask for a doctors note for multiple days sick.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You don't have to give a personal reason. Just say "sick" and hang up.

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