I took care of younger siblings, I got my taste of changing diapers, feeding, early years educating, schedule management, being "on" 24/7 for emergencies. No thank you. For me personally, being a mom with the typical gendered expectations would be a pile of hot trash with absolutely no upside.
Vanth
joined 1 year ago
You answered your own question. Lots of the social aspect is on discord and you're not willing to use discord. That's it.