[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

You're right. Had to dig into my memory for this one and fact check myself.

IRC, BBS, and most forums (of the era) used PM or SP. MUCKs and a few other tools used Whisper. ICQ introduced "IM me". Part of me remebers using the term "DM" for IRC messages, but I used IRC fairly regularly well into the 2010s.

However, the forum I spent a ton of my younger years on used "Direct Messages" which has likely polluted my memory. Since it was a technology related forum, that was probabaly a customization from the operator to distance everyone from the idea of "private" since everything was clear-text and unencrypted back then. That or I'm confusing "IM me" from the ICQ/AIM/MSN days.

Point being, nobody thought "PM" meant secure and not visible to the server operators back then. It just meant that only you, the recipient, server operators, and 1337 h4xx0rz could see your messages.

What a trip down edited memory lane that was. Thanks for fact checking me.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Umm.. People have been using the phrase "Direct message (DM) me" since forever in the game and online comms world. Private message wasn't a concept until after DMs were later encrypted. And we always knew, that if we didn't control the servers, even encrypted, those messages were subject the server operators.

Your logic is giving me the impression that you're younger and didn't go through these experiences.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

I just wish it was an either/or situation.

I don't always need my lawn mower/blower/weed trimmer on batteries. I wish I could easily plug them in when doing light dut work close to the house. But then they couldn't tie me into their battery ecosystem as easily.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This is some serious r/iamverysmart over simplicity. Nothing I said was shame mate.

I like living without stinking to high hell, having teeth that aren't rotting and infected, and not being covered in rashes and fungal growth because I am maintaining personal hygiene.

I love having friends. They bring me so much joy, happiness, shared interests, and introducing me to activities I enjoy.

Listening and not being constantly stuck in my mind allows me to build my knowledge and wisdom instead of some neckbeard elitist iamverysmart intern hellion.

I don't mask anymore, but I'm also not going to be some shitstain that believes they're the next "great" just because I am not nerutypical and have a false belief that the greats are-just-like-me because I'm neurodivergent.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

Some of that "weak stuff" includes things like:

  • Basic Hygine.
  • Maintain relationships you care about but struggle with.
  • Focusing on a conversation that is interesting or has valuable information you need but drift off after 30 seconds because you notice something in the background, a misplaced hair on their face, or your brain over corrects and you get stuck in the "must focus" internal mantra.
  • Remembering to eat instead of hyper focusing on a project and time blindness kicks in and it 14 hours later.
  • So-man-other-things.

ADHD is a fucking struggle mate. And your advice is oblivious to the realities of the struggles and life.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Thanks for proving my... What were we just talking about?

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This is probabaly largely due to the dosage.

Back in the 70s & 80s kids were, on-average, given 30mg instant release of Ritalin a day to start. These days they've cut that starting dose down to 5mg 2x a day for IR and the long acting is 10-20 once a day depending on the child's weight.

Dosage back then was also determined by severity of "undesired" symptoms instead of other factors like body mass and how well a lower starting dose is performing.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

ADHD is the worst at this.

A disorder that makes it hard to have cognitive function & execution has you required to do the following:

  1. Remember that you have the disorder.
  2. Remember that you can get treatment for it.
  3. Find a doctor/NP that specializes in ADHD or cognitive disorders.
  4. Schedule an appointment.
  5. Go to the appointment and go through the rigmarole of getting a new RX.
  6. (Current Market) Call around to pharmacies to find one that has your RX in stock and hope your medical insurance doesn't reject it or prescribe you something else because you don't have patient history with just Adderall yet and have to repeat this step because this pharmacy only had the other RX available.
  7. Go pick up your RX.
  8. Repeat 4-8 monthly since ADHD meds are tightly regulated and you can only get a 30-day supply without auto-refills.

Yeah.... We're completely setup for success.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

What meds, instant/extended release, and what dosage?

I'm on Adderall XR 15mg and after an initial "holy fuck" phase for a couple weeks it's tapered off into a nice rhythm. Shit isn't perfect, but I'm able to get up and get shit done. However, I also have the "I'm not hungry because of Adderall thing. And the thought of eating right now disgusts me.". Which helps with the ADHD snack binges I've struggled with. So I'll take that over the upset/queasy stomach feeling I had with a non-stimulant med I took for a few months a couple years back

If I wind up skipping a day I'm usually fine and don't feel any negative impacts. However, I also drink a shit ton of coffee (typically black) so that could be helping curb any withdraw sysmtpoms.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Firefox had some major memory leaks when Chrome first launched (2008). It became noticeable with the more tabs you had and the longer the browser was opened. This was also during the days for consumer systems with 16GB max RAM & 32GB on higher end enthusiast systems.

We also have to remeber that this was 10 years before Google removed their "Don't be Evil" motto, and there was still a great deal of trust that had been earned by tech professionals.

So when Chrome came in, had a minimalist UI (for the time) and was light weight and memory light without any obvious memory leaks, it was a performance boost for a toooon of users.

Chrome has since become a memory hog and is now being developed and pushed by a company that has become heavily enshittified & evil. Firefox has become lightweight, memory efficient, and is an FOSS product that's not evil and enshittified making it the right choice in 2024, but is going to be an uphill battle that hopefully more tech professionals move to as Manifest V3 becomes a reality.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

I switched off of Firefox because of those memory leaks. I remeber when it hit the tech news circles when the community contributer that was frustrated with them went in and fixed two of the biggest culprits.

Then I just didn't bother til somewhat recently. For the most part, it's great and does what ilI want/need. Biggest complaint is that some UX overhauls are needed for Mobile FX, especially around tab management.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Yeah, composite & RCA are synonymous with eachother. IIRC it's the difference between the connector name & cable name similar to rj-4 connector l/port vs cat-# cables.

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