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[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I do agree I am matching with the wrong kind of women, I just don't know what to change haha.

My swiping criteria are basically the same as yours; however, instead of seeing a lot of copy paste jokes, I see a lot of profiles that are just an Instagram handle. I'd say easily over 3/4 of profiles I see are empty, and a lot of the others only have an Instagram handle.

I've had good matches and conversations before, and the women I meet outside dating apps are a lot better to talk to, so I know it's just bad luck; but knowing that doesn't stop it being frustrating after several matches in a row where I have to carry the conversation, and that's after swiping through hundreds of empty or bad profiles between each.

So after a while of all that, I decided to take a break. Maybe when/if I return, I'll have a new look at my profile, see if anything can be improved or if there's something that's giving a wrong idea.