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[–] [email protected] 14 points 9 months ago (2 children)

People only offer derision towards people who fall for this (which is absolutely reasonable), but only a few see it as the fucking tragedy it is, no one gives a fucking shit about young men and their issues or gives them support, who are then taken wholesale by THESE bastards and turned into incels and/or nazis, had young men had any support from decent people we might have less people on the side of the bastards

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I've stopped believing that. I think there's plenty of support for them online; people like Mark Manson have been putting out great stuff for years. (His writings helped me through a lot of stuff.)

I think the main problem is that improving yourself requires admitting that you were wrong about some things, and apparently that's really hard to do for some people. Easier to blame it on the rest of society.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

bullshit. hating the world is just the easy way out, admitting you yourself are wrong is simply harder.