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What has been the hardest thing to let go of when deciding to distance yourself from or drop social media entirely? (kbin.melroy.org)

submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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For me it's input. I have a continually thinking mind that feels that I must have something to say on anything. Whenever I've gotten rid of a Reddit account or took even a day or two off from activity on the internet. I had an itch to say something whenever something is reported or something I've seen while browsing that peaked my interest.

And I feel I have to say something on it, even if small. But yet I try to restrain myself from doing so because of how manufactured social media has become today.

It's gotten a little better, mainly because you know, after registering so many accounts for so long and having to upkeep so many. It is tiring to do for me so I think I'm finally slowing down from that to where this issue won't nearly be as big as it once was.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Facebook in particular makes it so easy. I have an account I check every now and again. Everything is 85% ads and recommended content (not hyperbole, I counted). I can barely find posts by anyone I actually give a shit about.

Reddit has been very hard for me to quit because the volume of subjects, content, and people to engage with where I'm in the mood for serious talk or shitposting is just limitless. Lemmy is great but especially while I'm out of work I run out of Lemmy frequently, sometimes even if I look at All and just see everything.

But I changed my password without looking so I don't have a Reddit account any more and without that it's not worth going back anyway.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Why not just delete the account?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Facebook? It's a long story but the short version is I'm married and it wasn't a war worth waging.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was talking about the reddit one actually, but now I'm more concerned that what online accounts you have is somehow dictated by your partner. That's bizarre to me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

There are a bunch of family picture's and messages from early in our relationship. I need to be able to share photos and updates with the family and that's how we do it.

You make it sound dictatorial, but the truth is I just don't fucking care that much and it turned out to be a huge boon when planning her 50th birthday. I just have no use for spending time on the app, which having an account doesn't obligate me to do.

As for Reddit, changing the password was pretty simple. I abandoned several Reddit accounts that way when I started feeling like the sum of all my comments revealed too much about me that I might have to worry about being doxxed just because I cheesed off the wrong autistic asshole. So every 3-4 years I'd start over from scratch. It was natural to just so that again.

Warned you. Long stories, none of it interesting.