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Haha that's so--
Actually, never mind. I don't care that much.
I have a strange fear of being engaged by trolls. The thought alone is exhausting. I may or may not take the bait but the possibility of wasting my time on a useless argument means I'm hesitant to post. Not sure if anyone else has felt like this.
I violently disagree with your whole worldview and wish to engage you in rigorous debate over a topic neither of us has any ability to actually change in real life.
Here is the rebuttal and deconstruction of everything that you believe:
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It can be a part of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, and it's more common in people with ADHD. You're not alone in feeling this way.
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I also do this with emails at work all the time. I write a long detailed explanation of why something or someone is incorrect, then I realize clicking send will just cause me more hassle and I'm just working to get paid. It's not really gonna make my job any harder if they continue to be wrong, so it'll just sit there in drafts.
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I get so caught up in making sure my meaning can't possibly be misinterpreted that I get lost on my way to the point. I guess I don't want to be a cherry-picked example of somebody being stupid on the Internet.
Write something with specificity to avoid attacks on a general statement and nobody reads it because it’s TL;DR.
Write something general and brief and you get attacked for lack of specificity with people naming exceptions.
Can’t fucking win.
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Spend 10 minutes articulating exactly how you conceptualize/feel about something.
"Yeah. That's about right, but nobody including myself really cares..."
Close tab.
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Not necessarily anything to do with ADHD. Sometimes I just realise that writing whatever I'm writing would just trigger someone to start a fight. Then I stop.
Mostly it's like I keep editing and editing to get the right tone for a somewhat offensive style joke so I don't have too many people not understanding it's a joke before I think "fuck it, this is too much work for a stupid joke."
It would being nothing to the conversation, or I don't find the right words for explain my ideas correctly.
Or I realize halfway through that I'm being a bit of a dick and decide the world doesn't need more shittiness so I just delete the comment.
Or I realize that the message I start to reply to is hostile and not worth engaging with.
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Or I find the right words, but they come all at once and in the wrong order, and there's just so many of them, and it's very important that I get them exactly right, and... yeah I'm just going to not bother.
And then a few hours later I realize that it was a work email and I probably should get back to that.
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Happens to me all the damn time.
I just wish I wouldn't waste an hour typing and rewording it before I eventually give up.
This is like 80% of my comments but just 5-10 minutes. I don't want to deal with the follow up lol.
It almost seems like someone is watching just waiting to come in with an irate response
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When you realize you're the idiot for engaging with them
Do you ever type out a multiple paragraph argument about something and then just delete it because it’s all bullshit anyway?
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Arguing with people on the internet is like masturbation. It's fun at first, but eventually you realize you are only fucking yourself.
At least masturbation has an obvious end point.
Sometimes I get to the finish line and submit it. Then some shmuck has the nerve to point out some silly little typo. I barely care enough to finish the comment you real
We should just build a meme where we hit submit instead of cancel. I think it would really lead
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When you realize that you don't have to reply to a person on the internet, then you are truly free
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I started 4 responses in this thread and submitted 2 of them. I'm proud of myself. Oh! This one makes 3!
I was going to respond but decided not to and kept scrolling till I decided I would ...
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Negative engagements on Lemmy and Reddit. Felt stupid responding to some grumpy troll after I realise I don't actually care about them, their comment, or the topic in general.
Now when I do it, it's because nothing better is killing the next 10-15 mins I'm waiting to pass and I'm curious to see how far they'll go.
Trolling trolls. A fantastic pastime for the middle-aged. If you're real lazy but still curious, just copy paste it with ChatGPT and then it's extra fascinating because you're watching a troll go head to head with a bot.
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Happens all th
Omg... yes!
My usual thought process is: Can’t be arsed to do a full write up that covers all my thoughts on the topic, and even if I did no one wants to read it.
If I write a summarised comment then people will just nitpick the bits I didn’t address, and I can’t be bothered to respond to replies.
When I type out a well thought out reply and realize where I'm posting it. They will not appreciate my hot takes.
Start typing, get distracted. Come back and realise I never hit post
Or that I don't actually have anything to contribute and that my opinion has already been stated so I won't be adding anything original to the conversation.
described me, perfectly
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