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[-] [email protected] 90 points 9 months ago

"I see you've been through enough traumatic experiences that you've developed age inappropriate styles of communication as a defense mechanism" is really what that means.

[-] [email protected] 42 points 9 months ago

Or maybe they were creeped out because you said things way too mature

[-] [email protected] 67 points 9 months ago

You know I was thinking, there really is no objective meaning to life. Everyone kind of chooses something they think is important to them but really, it doesn't matter. It seems like all human endeavour is ultimately pointless in the timescale of the universe anyway but I just keep going because I'm not sure what else to do, not because it matters in any real sense.


For fucks sake Timmy, fine, you can have an extra scoop of ice cream just stop trying to give everyone an existential crisis.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Yea but I got shows to finish and rollercoasters to ride still so life ain't all that depressing.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

This is the way

[-] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago

Exactly. It has a lot to do with how your parents treat you as a child. I was always treated like a small adult, so I never had an issue getting along with adults (my mother has her masters in childhood development, so I'm assuming she knew what she was doing). If your parents treat you like a dumb kid, then that's how you expect adults to interact with you.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

They're definitely not mutually exclusive.

[-] [email protected] 39 points 9 months ago

Oh thank God, I thought they suspected me of being an isekai protagonist.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago
[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

The youths yearn for being run over by trucks

[-] [email protected] 30 points 9 months ago

Is serotonin just the placeholder word to use when you have no understanding of neurotransmitters? Seriously, serotonin has like a hundred purposes in the body, what are they trying to refer to?

[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

The advertising for SSRIs convinced a lot of people that depression is cause by not enough serotonin, so there's this idea that serotonin = happiness.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Yeah, I don't usually like arguing semantics but the serotonin thing grinds my gears since there's so many causes and treatments to depression and serotonin isn't even involved in many situations.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Us old folk heard that depression was because of low serotonin years ago, and the idea stuck like old gum to the underside of a desk. Yeah, it could be scrapped off, but since we don't ever see the bottom of the desk, why would we put in the effort. As a side note, that you for you comment as a reminder that I need to see what new treatments to depression do and look into what we have discovered in the last 20 years...

[-] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Probably joy/happiness

[-] [email protected] 23 points 9 months ago

I don't know if this is true. I know a kid that I consider an old soul and he will say something not only wise, but empathetic and sweet to someone when we're just talking. Then he'll fart in your face and giggle his ass off.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

You’re mistaken. That kid has an old’s hole.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

They did call me that actually...

I'm still sick of this world but hey, what to do. I do like some things, driving cars and messing with computers is fun... :)

[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

get into simracing; you'll be too poor to die

[-] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Hey, me, too!

[-] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

For me it really was „so you’re autistic and your parents cant be bothered to get you diagnosed“.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

For me it was, so you're autistic everyone's a little autistic.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

If someone wants me to hate them and not piss on them if they are on fire, all they have to do is say that.

I know its a trauma thing for me an they are just ignorant but boy do I hate that sentence.

Sorry you had to go through that.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago

Yeah it was repressed abuse and dysphoria for me.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Oof. Yes. Repressed abuse and early traumatic friendship (schizophrenia was his diagnosis). You become an "old soul" when you've seen/experienced some shit, even if it's early on.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

I think this ignores that some children are more pensieve and reflexive...

[-] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Yeah, I was super short on serotonin but no one would of ever called me an old soul as a child. My ADHD keeps me running my mouth and being super irritating with people around. I only get quiet and reflect on my own mortality and pointlessness of all life once they walk away and I'm left with my own loud constant inner monologue.

Those of use blessed with the loud, fast constant sadness. We wish we could be called an old soul. RIP Robin Williams.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

This just made me realize.

Fuck you and thank you for it

[-] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago
[-] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Me too homie

[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

As a bipolar epileptic, I got this phrase a lot.

I wasn't an old soul, I was severely depressed and suicidal.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

Oh shit I tried so hard to hide my depression as a kid. Guess I was super bad at it lol.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

Well, it’s actually norepinephrine and dopamine that I struggle with, but that’s bc I have adhd.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

It's amazing what a parent deciding to try crack at 45 years old will do to a kid. Thank God Mama was smart enough to get us tf outta there. But yeah, I got the whole "old soul" thing my whole childhood.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

My love of doo wop probably didn't help

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