Lazylazycat

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

I want to know this too! I haven't heard of any beef with etsy before.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Same for me. I remember starting to count down from 10 and feeling intensely sleepy, and then waking up on the bed asking when they were going to start the surgery and the nurse was like, lol, that happened a while ago mate. So weird.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Same, so much quicker to make handwritten notes at work. I also just want to give my hands and eyes a break from using my phone.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Don't be so dense. Maybe for you it was fine but my dad has never been the same since, and he had covid 18 months ago.

I'm young(ish), fit and healthy and I was ill for 6 weeks. I don't know how you could be unaware of its effects after all this time.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

In the UK at least, most people I know who work in an office can choose to WFH or do hybrid working. I do hybrid by choice, I don't want to WFH full time.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

If people have zero time to talk to you then they're not a friend, no, but I'm talking about expecting instant replies. I very much agree with you about not giving time to fake friends, and that's what I was referring to about unhealthy friendships in my previous comment.

I think the majority of interactions with my friends just happen in person so most conversations aren't taking place on my phone, apart from those that live far away. And I have like 200 friends on Facebook because I made a new account and only added people I care about (which I highly recommend for any social media!).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

This sounds like you have really unhealthy friendships with poor communication. Sure, an acknowledgement of your invitation at the very least is respectful, but I also would never expect any of the people I love to feel an obligation to be tied to their phone or to have to speak to me if in that moment they don't want to. People have lives that don't revolve around me, and I know that doesn't mean that they care about me any less.

Maybe their anxiety is playing up that week? Maybe they're depressed? Maybe they're really busy? None of these things are an insult to me, and if you care about each other then you'll make time at some point.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago

Absolutely not. It's slavery, and forcing humans to kill other humans for the cause of some sociopaths that hold power is abhorrent.

My great grandad was conscripted in WW2, he escaped twice just so he could hold his baby daughter. Good for him. I might not have got to meet him if he hadn't done that. Seeing his friends get blown to bits for nothing changed him forever.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (4 children)

There shouldn't be an expectation to always be "on". I'll reply to people, but sometimes it might a few days or a week later.

But then I'm old enough to have had pen pals and remember conversations that would go on for years with weeks or months inbetween each exchange.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Hey but, did you know, that cows would be extinct if we didn't factory farm them?

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